To any woman considering to turn her husband or boyfriend into her (full time) maid, I have no advice other than: just do it, you will not regret it. What's there not to like? A spotless home and garden and car, maximum care taken of your clothes, lingerie and footwear, delicious meals, snacks and drinks served to you, all without having to spend another minute on it (except the time training him to become exactly the maid you want him to be, including teaching him the standards to which you expect him to fulfill his duties).
On top of all this, the new arrangement will guarantee perfect sexual service to you: when you want it, how you want it, as long as you want it. He is in no position to say no and at this point it will not even occur to him. He does not become less of a man necessarily: that is entirely up to you.
Is it an acquired taste to see him wearing a maid's uniform? Probably, but it will grow on you once you realize and experience the benefits. Plus, there are many different styles.
If this is too much for you (maye at first) there are other, more traditional outfits.
Should you worry about what other people will think and say? It is up to you how private you keep his transformation. Assuming you go for a 24/7 arrangement, it will mean he will have to quit his job, if he still has one. That in ietself may lead to comments, but those should not be to difficult to answer - this is the 21st century after all and both men and women are free in their choice to work or to stay at home.
Whether anyone will know that your man is your uniform wearing maid, is up to you. I have him wear male-looking feminine clothes when we go outside the house (only observant women would tell his shirt is a blouse and his zipperless slacks are women's pants) and only a limited group of trusted female friends know about his status in my relationship - and are served by him. They love it. But again: it's your choice whether to keep it between the two of you or to let others in on it.
One last advice, at the risk of stating the obvious: when I say "your choice" I mean "the woman's choice". By making him serve you as a maid, you have removed any remaining doubt as to who is in charge and who takes the decisions. Naturally this also goes for decisions about your privacy - and his.
Don't ambush him, though. Don't invite a bunch of your girlfriends without telling him if he has never been a maid to anyone but you. Find a good moment to inform him about the change that is going to occur. Preferably give him ample time to internalize the new reality that he will not only serve you. It's not going to be easy for him: my bf actually burst into tears when I first told him. And pleaded with me not to subject him to what he saw as a huge humiliation. It took a long and severe disciplinary session to re-establish the rule that he has no right to argue and doubt my decisions. But still I'm pretty sure he would much rather serve just me and is always relieved to see the last of my lady friends leave.
So, the fact that he does not have any say in it whatsoever does not mean you should not give him time to get used to the idea. I have a daily moment where he is kneeling at my feet and I evaluate his performance of the past day, indicate the improvements I expect to see, spell out the lessons I want him to learn, inform him of the punishments he will receive or the privileges that will be revoked, explain what expectations I have for the next 24 hours, including non-routine chores etc. If you have a similar moment, that might be a good time and place to inform him of the upcoming changes. You may want to say how proud you are of him, of the way he looks and moves and performs his tasks, how it would make you proud to show his skills to others and that "my friend Abigail from work will be coming for lunch next Sunday".
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TURNING HIM INTO YOUR MAID: WHAT TO CONSIDER
To any woman considering to turn her husband or boyfriend into her (full time) maid, I have no advice other than: just do it, you will not regret it. What's there not to like? A spotless home and garden and car, maximum care taken of your clothes, lingerie and footwear, delicious meals, snacks and drinks served to you, all without having to spend another minute on it (except the time training him to become exactly the maid you want him to be, including teaching him the standards to which you expect him to fulfill his duties).
Is it an acquired taste to see him wearing a maid's uniform? Probably, but it will grow on you once you realize and experience the benefits. Plus, there are many different styles.
If this is too much for you (maye at first) there are other, more traditional outfits.
Should you worry about what other people will think and say? It is up to you how private you keep his transformation. Assuming you go for a 24/7 arrangement, it will mean he will have to quit his job, if he still has one. That in ietself may lead to comments, but those should not be to difficult to answer - this is the 21st century after all and both men and women are free in their choice to work or to stay at home.
Whether anyone will know that your man is your uniform wearing maid, is up to you. I have him wear male-looking feminine clothes when we go outside the house (only observant women would tell his shirt is a blouse and his zipperless slacks are women's pants) and only a limited group of trusted female friends know about his status in my relationship - and are served by him. They love it. But again: it's your choice whether to keep it between the two of you or to let others in on it.
One last advice, at the risk of stating the obvious: when I say "your choice" I mean "the woman's choice". By making him serve you as a maid, you have removed any remaining doubt as to who is in charge and who takes the decisions. Naturally this also goes for decisions about your privacy - and his.
Don't ambush him, though. Don't invite a bunch of your girlfriends without telling him if he has never been a maid to anyone but you. Find a good moment to inform him about the change that is going to occur. Preferably give him ample time to internalize the new reality that he will not only serve you. It's not going to be easy for him: my bf actually burst into tears when I first told him. And pleaded with me not to subject him to what he saw as a huge humiliation. It took a long and severe disciplinary session to re-establish the rule that he has no right to argue and doubt my decisions. But still I'm pretty sure he would much rather serve just me and is always relieved to see the last of my lady friends leave.
So, the fact that he does not have any say in it whatsoever does not mean you should not give him time to get used to the idea. I have a daily moment where he is kneeling at my feet and I evaluate his performance of the past day, indicate the improvements I expect to see, spell out the lessons I want him to learn, inform him of the punishments he will receive or the privileges that will be revoked, explain what expectations I have for the next 24 hours, including non-routine chores etc. If you have a similar moment, that might be a good time and place to inform him of the upcoming changes. You may want to say how proud you are of him, of the way he looks and moves and performs his tasks, how it would make you proud to show his skills to others and that "my friend Abigail from work will be coming for lunch next Sunday".